Feng Shui Folly: Setting Boundaries Using Mirrors

Our friend T.K. asks: “I have a very hate filled neighbor next door.  He has even threatened physical violence, although I don’t believe he would follow through.  He is my husband’s brother, who we bought our land from.  I am trying to figure out what Feng Shui cures I can use to stem the hostility. I am wondering about a concave bagua mirror facing in his direction over a window on the east side of my house.  I know they usually go over the entrance door but that is not the direction he is from my home.  I know they are very powerful and can backfire, causing increased hostility or harm to ourselves.  Can you advise…should I just hang a regular mirror in a window facing his direction?  I really could use your advice.”

Wow, what a challenge! Your concave mirror suggestion on the east side of your house sounds like a great idea. AND it’s crucial that you hang it with the pure and loving intent to protect your space from receiving any imbalanced energies. It’s like closing a door. The mirror symbolizes zipping up your space with a blessing and a prayer for all concerned, and with the simple clarity of an open door now being shut. Boundaries clarified and honored. You can also visualize a protective bubble around your space and ask the trees, plants, and earth to join you in creating and holding it in place.

Also, ask your Helpers on the unseen levels of life to “do whatever is necessary to balance the situation,” and thank them for their help. Hold the space for healing and balance to manifest and know that you have lots of help, especially when you ask for it!